STRATEGIZE AND MOBILIZE OR HOPELESS/HELPLESS IN THE VICTIM TRAP?

June: Cherokee Month of the Green Corn Moon

“One day . . . or day one.” -- Anonymous

SEL: # 1 Self-Awareness             #3 Self-Management             #5 Responsible Decision-Making        

Digital Learner: # 5 Knowledge Constructor

A kind word to one in trouble is often like a switch in a railroad track. . .an inch between wreck and smooth sailing.                                                                                                                                                            – Henry Ward Beecher (1813-1887)

Maria Montessori was one of Italy’s first female physicians in 1896. She said, “Preventing conflicts is the work of politics. Establishing peace is the work of education.” When we educate ourselves emotionally, and cultivate the tools of recovery to keep our executive-thinking engaged and in charge, we can find ways to strategize. Then, after examining all perspectives, we can mobilize. Montessori said, “Courage. Courage for the harvest.” When I am overwhelmed, end results elude me. I just do-the-next-right-thing. The victim trap lies to our inner child about being helpless and hopeless. (That was then, this is now.)

When I connect with people and stay educated about how to use effective-emotional tools, my life works regardless of how complicated conditions become. I can work through things or live with them, in acceptance. Either way, its my choice and I can always re-choose what does not work.

Aloha love,

Carla

Mission Statement: I am committed to being an effective member of the global digital community. Montana Cat Tales for Life-Long Learners, LLC publishes children’s picture books for ages 4-8, on earth science; emotions and feelings; and social-emotional learning (SEL). These books work to help children understand themselves, their place in the world through animal characters and diverse human companions, and to find their authentic Voice. They provide Learning-to-Learn Skills for Early Readers, sight-words, and phonics for academic enrichment.

The 5 SEL Competencies:  Self-Awareness, Social Awareness, Self-Management, Relationship Skills, and Responsible Decision-Making. CASEL.org

I Have Digital Literary Skills: I can locate information: I use digital technology to effectively search for relevant and reliable information sources. I can evaluate sources: I analyze sources of digital information for credibility, bias, and influence. I can interpret meaning: I determine meaning from various digital sources that represent multiple perspectives. I can express my ideas: I create digital content to express myself and voice my ideas. I can communicate with others: I safely and responsibly collaborate with and learn from others online, including those who think differently than I do. I can navigate technological ecosystems: I’m aware that my online actions influence my digital landscape, I leave a trail, and impact my privacy.   getdigitalskills.com  ISTE.org

Commitments of a Digital Citizen: I am inclusive: I engage with others online with respect and empathy. I am informed: I evaluate the accuracy, perspective, and validity of online information. I am engaged: I use technology for civic engagement and to be a force for good. I am balanced: I prioritize my time and activities online and offline. I am alert: I know how to be safe online and create safe spaces for others.  digcitcommit.org  ISTE.org   

The 7 Competencies for Technology in Education: Empowered Learner: I use technology to set goals, work toward achieving them, and demonstrating my learning. Global Collaborator: I strive to broaden my perspective, understand others, and work effectively in teams using digital tools. Digital Citizen: I understand the rights, responsibilities, and opportunities of living, learning, and working in an interconnected digital world. Creative Communicator: I communicate effectively and express myself creatively using different tools, styles, formats, and digital media. Knowledge Constructor: I critically select, evaluate, and synthesize digital resources into a collection that reflects my learning and builds my knowledge. Computational Thinker: I identify authentic problems, work with data, and use a step-by-step process to automate solutions. Innovative Designer: I solve problems by creating new and imaginative solutions using a variety of digital tools. ISTE.org  

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