"WHISPERS OF DIMINISHMENT"

 "One day . . . or day one.” -- Anonymous

 Cherokee Month of the Windy Moon

 

SEL:  #1 Self-Awareness

          #4 Relationship Skills

Digital Learner:  #4 Creative Communicator

 A friend of mine asked me if I was listening to the “whispers of diminishment” inside my head. I was discouraged, disappointed, deeply upset, agitated, and distraught. Yes. This was “energy-confetti” because it caused me to pause building my business -- in a negative way. If I pause to reflect and re-plan, fine. If I am numb and quit working, that is something else. Also, being funny doesn’t happen for me when I am low-minded. And, a critical part of my work is humor.

Now what? Some people in my life were part of the “whispers of diminishment” campaign: “You’ll never write anything.” “People don’t make a living by writing.” This is hilarious to me in hindsight. This person subscribed to magazines, bought books, and read newspapers. These things weren’t written by ghosts. I chose to be unavailable to those individuals, often. It’s hard when they are family members; nevertheless, they are not going to recalibrate my retirement. I am. I keep the “end in mind” every day. I breathe, then proceed to get to work.

One of my teachers suggested I log my time and commit to a 21-day plan to restructure my writing time. With Chris Fox (2015) Lifelong Writing Habit: The Secret to Writing Every Day (www.chrisfoxwrites.com), I have done 21-days many times and find new growth each time. Gratitude to Chris Fox.

Aloha love,

Carla

I am committed to being an effective member of the global digital community by writing children’s picture books on feelings and emotions and social-emotional learning (SEL). These books work to help children understand themselves and their place in the world and to enrich academic development.

 The 5 SEL Competencies are: Self-Awareness, Social Awareness, Self-Management, Relationship Skills, and Responsible Decision-Making. CASEL.org

 The 7 Competencies for Technology in Education Empowered Learner: I use technology to set goals, work toward achieving them, and demonstrating my learning.

Global Collaborator: I strive to broaden my perspective, understand others, and work effectively in teams using digital tools.

Digital Citizen: I understand the rights, responsibilities, and opportunities of living, learning, and working in an interconnected digital world.

Creative Communicator: I communicate effectively and express myself creatively using different tools, styles, formats, and digital media.

Knowledge Constructor: I critically select, evaluate, and synthesize digital resources into a collection that reflects my learning and builds my knowledge.

Computational Thinker: I identify authentic problems, work with data, and use a step-by-step process to automate solutions.

Innovative Designer: I solve problems by creating new and imaginative solutions using a variety of digital tools. ISTE.org  

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  1. Manageable increments. 21 days is a doable period of time. What a timely reminder. Thank you, Carla.

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    1. I don't know how this story will end. . . I do know that when I do the next right thing, each day unfolds. I promised myself I would do two things: Make a plan. Don't quit. Appreciate your encouragement.

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  2. Energy confetti - my personal nemesis and daily challenge. A specified block of time to restructure and re-focus, reflect and re-direct if necessary is a powerful tool. It is astounding in hindsight to realize how often those "whispers of diminishment" creep in - from external sources as well as the voice of our own inner wounded child. The simple act of doing the next right thing, and then the next, truly does unfold each day.
    Thank you for this loving, timely reminder!

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    1. You are so very welcome. Appreciate the encouragement - nice to meet a fellow traveler along the road. Indie-publishing children's picture books (target summer 2023) can seem overwhelming to the Inner Child. I tell her often, "I got this," with my hand over my heart to engage the vagus nerve. Then, I let her play with the kittens instead of demanding my typical Type A "get-the-work-done" attitude.

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